The death of a loved one abroad is heartbreaking. For many African families, there’s also a strong cultural expectation to bury the deceased at home. Repatriating remains involves grief, legal processes, significant costs and coordination between two countries, often while family members are scattered across continents.
This guide provides general information to help families prepare and navigate the process.
Immediate Steps After a Death
- Contact emergency services or a doctor if the death was unexpected
- Obtain the medical certificate of cause of death
- Inform close family
- Contact a funeral director experienced in international repatriation
- Notify the Nigerian embassy or high commission
In the UK, the government’s what to do after someone dies guide explains registration and other steps. Other countries have similar official guidance.
Register the Death
Deaths must be registered with local authorities, usually within a specific time. If a coroner or medical examiner is involved, registration and release of the body may take longer.
Documents Usually Required for Repatriation
Requirements vary, but commonly include:
- Death certificate
- Permission to remove the body from the country, where required
- Embalming certificate
- Certificate stating the body is free from infectious disease, where required
- Deceased’s passport
- Documents or clearance from the Nigerian mission
- Airline documentation
An experienced funeral director usually coordinates much of this.
Costs
Repatriation can be expensive. Costs may include:
- Funeral director services
- Embalming and preparation
- Specialised coffin or casket
- Airline cargo fees
- Documentation fees
- Transport from airport to burial place in Nigeria
- Funeral and burial expenses at home
Families often raise funds through community contributions, associations and churches or mosques.
Working With the Nigerian Mission
The Nigerian embassy or high commission may need to issue or endorse documents for the body to enter Nigeria. Contact them early to understand requirements and timelines.
Cremation vs Burial
Some families choose cremation and transport ashes, which is generally simpler and cheaper. Cultural and religious beliefs strongly influence this choice. Discuss wishes openly.
Religious Considerations
Muslim families may wish to bury quickly, which can conflict with repatriation timelines. Some Muslim families choose local burial for this reason. Discuss options with religious leaders and funeral directors.
Planning Ahead
Although difficult to discuss, planning can reduce stress:
- Consider life insurance that covers repatriation costs
- Look into funeral or repatriation plans offered by some community associations
- Write a will stating burial wishes
- Keep important documents organised
- Tell family where documents are kept
Supporting the Bereaved
Grief can be complicated when families are separated by distance. Community support, practical help with meals and childcare, and emotional support matter. Bereavement counselling services can also help.
Estate Matters
After the funeral, families may need to deal with bank accounts, property, pensions and debts in both countries. Probate or letters of administration may be required.
Beware of Exploitation
Grieving families can be targeted by people collecting money under false pretences. Use transparent fundraising methods and trusted organisations.
Choosing a Funeral Director
Not all funeral directors have experience with international repatriation. Ask how many repatriations to Nigeria they’ve handled, what their quote includes, typical timelines and how they work with airlines and the Nigerian mission. Request itemised quotes from more than one provider. Community associations and religious leaders can often recommend funeral directors who understand African families’ cultural and religious needs.
Coordinate With Family at Home
Agree early who will receive the body at the airport in Nigeria, handle customs and transport, and organise burial arrangements. Clear coordination prevents delays and disputes during an already painful time.
Final Thoughts
Repatriating a loved one to Nigeria or Africa involves grief, paperwork and cost. Contact experienced funeral directors, engage the Nigerian mission early, gather documents and lean on community support. Planning ahead through insurance and wills can ease the burden on families during the hardest moments.